Your loved one told you the coveted “yes”. The courtship and romance are no longer that necessary. A man becomes calm and a little indifferent to his woman. Now his main objectives: to provide the family with everything needed, to buy property or raise a business.
There are children in the family, and the wife is already dissolved in the children and household chores. You don’t have enough time to spend on each other. Problems, worries, troubles and routine take all the time of a young couple, and soon there’s nothing left from the family idyll. And all of this is due to lack of attention and time. The family quarrels and conflicts arise. Monotony and everyday life come in place of passion and romance. Is it possible to rekindle the dying flame of passion and love in a marriage?
Feelings eventually go away forever. The couple has a feeling of boredom, lack of understanding results in absence of topics to have a conversation on (except children). Closeness is extremely rare. Claims for the second half are growing like a snowball.
It is extremely important in the event of at least one of these signs to act urgently, ie try to restore the relationship. Return to the previous level of relations will be much more difficult than to try to save what is left.
Each pair needs to understand that the other partner will not be perfect for you. Passion will subside and the same problems arise, and perhaps even worse. Therefore, take care of the relationship that you have and try to do everything possible for its development.
But how to bring it back? How to set a flame of love and passion in the hearth? Everyone should remember that marriage is primarily a time-consuming work. Women are more engaged in it, but men must make their contribution. During the marriage the woman gets used to the fact that her husband is no longer taking care of her, he becomes inert. But believe me, your wife will be extremely pleased to see from you some surprise and little care.
Before you start pleasing his wife, a man needs to remember what he liked in his beloved at the beginning of a romantic relationship. What did you do together? What conversations did you have? What did you do for each other?
Each woman is individual and distinctive, but the way to her heart is simple. You just need to figure out what she likes. Maybe she likes flowers? Gifts? Compliments? Does she like the attention? Or just talk heart to heart? When you understand, you will be able to decide what to do. But a date with surprises and flowers is not all. A woman should feel cherished being with a man. And of course, it is necessary to pay attention to her. Communicate more with your wife on various topics, try to listen and not to impose your views. Be interested in her pastime, work. Most importantly – show interest and ask questions. If you start the discussion with your wife, she will not have to pry your mind.
Do not forget about touching and affection. Optionally, kissing and hugging all the time spent together. Touch her face, shoulder, waist and so on. A massage of the legs after a hard day will take your second half to the summit of bliss. Do some housework. Do not wait for a woman to ask you. But if you do not know how to help, it is better to ask.
Go out together more often, give each other gifts, travel. Don’t forget about compliments. Rate her hairstyle, or jewelry. Tell her that she looks great. It is important that the woman felt the approval of her husband in everything.
Find common hobbies. It can be dancing, sports or just evening jog. All this will light a new spark in the marital relationship.
If you will try to do something nice for your wife, then romance will always be present in your family.