Speed dating. This phenomenon is quite popular in the West. They are held in the format of the parties and are intended to give people the opportunity to meet and make the first impression.
Essential components of such events – pleasant atmosphere, the selection of social security and equal partners. Visitors have the opportunity to talk one-on-one with each of the opposite sex, is seven minutes are given on each mini-date. When mutual interest, you can continue to communicate. About how effective this form of dating, says psychologist, a consultant on family problems Alex Nash.
Is it possible to find your soul mate on express date?
Statistics shows that the chance of finding a partner on express date are much higher than on the Internet. Here is why:
Firstly, a person is making more effort – it must be somewhere to go, the courage to talk “live”, to make a good impression on the interlocutor. It’s more complicated than just write a message on the Internet, and we always appreciate that in what more of our time and energy invested.
Secondly, during live communication, there are noticeable nuances that are difficult to assess through the Internet – a partner activity, his reaction and even the smell of pheromones.
However, speed-dating is less efficient than places where people are engaged in a common cause – in creative studios, at work, etc. Experience shows that such places are the most beneficial places to search for a partner.
Can you trust the first impression?
According to studies, it is often the first impression is the right one. Of course, this does not mean that from the very first moment you realize: that’s the type of person with whom you want to live your whole life! But to understand with whom you can try.
How dangerous is the participation in such events?
The organizers have made great efforts to protect the confidential information of all clients. Therefore, the danger may be only the illusion of choice, why choose right now? This phenomenon from the sphere of Internet dating, when a man finds a dozen potentially suitable partners, but think: what if tomorrow will be better? And does not choose anyone.
Top 5 questions you should ask a stranger
The list of questions is to make in advance. If you want to know a person, it is important to understand that people are more sincere answer abstract questions. According to answer a lot will become clear.
If you want to impress, you have a good list of questions from Arthur Aron. You can choose any five, as long as you can answer them.
Five questions to clarify life goals:
1. What is your biggest dream? Why you have not fulfilled it?
2. What would your perfect day?
3. What do you value most in your friends?
4. What would you like to ask the crystal ball, knowing that it will tell the truth?
5. Which of all people in the world would you invite on a dinner?
Questions that will help to make a good first impression:
1. When did you sing for yourself last time? And for someone else? What is this song?
2. What are the three qualities, in your opinion, we are the same?
3. Your house is on fire with all the equipment. After the rescue of relatives and pets you have time to run into the house and pick up one more thing. What would it be and why?